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I am a holistic therapist, kinesiologist, self-empowerment mentor, intuitive healer based in Adelaide. 

I’m here to help you find your way home, back to your true authentic self and show you that it is safe to shine your light brightly.

Here you can read my full story although I no longer defined myself by it. I wanted to show you what is possible...

My story

I spent a big part of my life looking for myself, for who I was. 

Growing up the message was clear “there is not enough for us”, “we are less than…”, "the world is a dangerous place so better keep safe".

Through conditioning from my family, school, I learnt that it wasn't safe or accepted to express a desire or show who I was authentically (it would result in being shut down, shouted at, criticised).

So the best way to avoid any of this, was to keep it all for myself and hide it.

I put up a wall. Subconsciously trying to pre-empt what everyone wanted from me to keep the peace.

As a result I became very analytical, overthinking, defensive, always on alert.

I had split. This way of being created a massive disconnect between the person I was showing outside and the person I was inside.

Most importantly I HAD NO IDEA, WHO I WAS…

I had spent the first part of my life being told how to think, to behave, what to study in order to have a good job in the future…that every aspiration I had wasn’t valid unless they were fitting a social norm of what looks like a good thing to have.

MY SELF-HEALING JOURNEY STARTED THEN…

Over the years, I enrolled in various courses and learnt the tools to befriend fear and my shadows, to reopen myself to feel, to speak my truth, to let go of fear of judgement. I reconstructed a belief system that was more in alignment with who I truly was.


I remember a course a practitioner saying to me, “You are too much in your head, come to your heart.” I honestly could not even understand what they were meaning by this. ”What do you mean my heart?” - and yet they were sooo right.


It all started to come together and make sense.

I came across a weekend introduction to kinesiology and I became hooked. I embarked on the journey and became a kinesiologist.

I DROPPED EVERYTHING AND FLEW TO AUSTRALIA

Fast forward few years. I graduated as "Doctor in Pharmaceutical science". Got a good paid job, I had “made it” according to society's standard, I had acquired another status.

All my friends had started to settle down, find a job, build a house, think about having kids.

I could see my path laid out ahead of me, my inner turmoil grew even louder.

I felt imprisoned, suffocated, empty, and disconnected.

Surely there was something more to life?

I had to leave, to break free. My soul was craving freedom.

I left France and flew as far as I could. I landed in Sydney, Australia. I had no idea at the time that I’d end up as a kinesiologist in Adelaide!

I had to rebuild myself completely. Learn a new language, build new friendships, find a new job.

This was when I began to understand the whole big illusion of living in our heads, being defined by "labels''.

To know ourselves fully, we must first unlearn everything.

Although physically I was far away from my old life, it didn’t really solve anything. I had brought my ghosts with me. I had no keys…so I started looking for answers

MY BIGGEST TAKE AWAYS

Setting up myself as a kinesiologist was only really the beginning…The illusion is to think we arrive somewhere, that happiness is an external game, that is is bound to a job, a location, a partner. 


Inner balance is a fine line and you can always loose yourself along the way: you can loose yourself in your family, your passion, your job, sitting in the waiting room of life.


Yes these things are important, but if we don't heal our coping mechanisms, if we don't become more self-aware about "'why"' we do the things we do, how we do them, after the first novelty we end up recreating the same patterns.


The truth is, we don't chase things, we chase feelings. When our primal needs for love, safety, value, connection have not been met, we may seek out ways to meet these needs through external means: we over-function, over-give, we disconnect from our bodies and push ourselves beyond our limits.


Sometimes it takes us a big wake up call until we are willing to look within: disease, burn out, job loss but we really don't have to. 


By healing these parts of ourselves and building these feelings from within, we can chose a different response. For example, putting the computer down when we are tired, prioritising time with our kids over working late to please our boss.


We feel more grounded within ourselves. We have the room to listen to our inner voice & focus on what we truly want (not what we think we want).

We can pursue our true passions without the need for external validation or approval. We feel self-worth from the inside. Not from our job status, our bank account, our looks. And no one can take this self-worth away from us.


It is truly a journey not a destination. Life is full of challenges, ups & downs and so the journey is filled with doubts, letting go of attachments, facing our fears. But it is the most fulfilling path!!


What you need on this journey is acquiring a set of tools, codes, practices that you will always use to bring you back on the path.


This is exactly what I'm here to teach you! To empower yourself on your own healing journey. To remind you that you are the medicine and all the answers you are seeking as within you.


I’m here to spread the word that we are not victim of our fate.


I’m here to help souls just like you reclaim their power as conscious creator of their lives and embody fully what they came here to accomplish.


Book a free clarity call to discuss the best forward towards a freer version of YOU!

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Here's a glimpse into my formal training journey:

 HLT52415 Diploma of Kinesiology 

 10594NAT Diploma of Mind Body Medicine

 NLP Master Practitioner

 Thetahealing Practitioner

 LEAP FT1 - Brain Integration & stress (survival Switching)

 LEAP Environment Factors

 LEAP Brain Integration 2 (Reticular Activated System, Balance Equilibrium)

 Attitude With Essences

 Basket Weaver And Can Opener Holograms

 Simply The Brain

I'm committed to my continuous education and I'm currently completing a Master in Counselling and Psychotherapy

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